The past two years (and some change) have been a challenge, to say the very least. Dark days and bright spots, loneliness, many hours of research, and a smattering of soul-searching. As I have finally reached the end of a particular marathon, I want to reflect on what I've learned. (Hey, I'm a teacher, everything is a learning opportunity, right?)
I've learned that:
- Living in silence doesn’t help the healing- it only perpetuates the pain. Speaking up opens the door for people to help, and for you to help others by sharing your story.
- Prioritizing your own health and healing isn’t selfish, it’s survival.
- Seeking help isn’t weakness, but courageous and bold.
- It is during the worst times of your life you will get to see the true colors of the people who say they care for you.
- Forgiveness doesn’t erase a traumatic experience - but prevents that experience from destroying you.
I've also learned a great deal about myself.
I am:
- Shocked at how much I actually enjoy reading research articles.
- Confident that I am meant to teach.
- Infinitely inspired by my students (past & present).
- Stronger than I’d realized.
- Filled to the brim with determination.
- Empowered by my family and friends.
- Open to and excited for the future.
- Moving forward.
